A Friendly Divorce: Can an Attorney Help Make This Happen?

September 5, 2017 — by Karen Brown
Tags: Divorce Family Law

Reaching an agreementDivorces and separations can be very difficult for all members of a family, but they don't always have to be. Sometimes divorces can be carried out in a way that reduces the stress and hard feelings that are often unavoidable. In other words, a divorce doesn't always have to be painful. We're sometimes asked by clients about these kinds of friendly divorces and what they entail.

Working with an experienced Los Angeles divorce lawyer can help keep matters between spouses civil and professional. Let's consider the meaning of a friendly divorce and when this sort of approach might be appropriate.

What Does a Friendly Divorce Mean?

While divorces can be fraught and difficult for a number of reasons, there are a number of things that can be done to reduce the stress and pain involved. A friendly divorce refers to various means used to help maintain as amicable a relationship as possible. This can have a number of benefits for your family, your friends, and yourself.

Are Friendly Divorces Possible?

In a number of instances, friendly divorces are possible. There are instances where spouses may be able to work things out on their own given the nature of their relationship, while in a number of other cases, divorce lawyers will work as mediators and facilitators, helping keep the divorce process and any legal proceedings as fair and friendly as possible.

Why a Friendly Divorce Might Be Ideal

There are a few reasons why you might want to consider a friendly divorce:

  • Helpful for Your Children – If you have children with your spouse, a friendly divorce can help maintain a stable and loving environment in which to raise your kids. This also helps prevent disputes over custody and visitation rights.

  • Keeps the Peace Between Spouses – Friendly divorces focus on fairness between former spouses. Working at a friendly divorce means keeping the peace during the process and preventing hard feelings after the divorce is finalized.

  • Can Improve the Entire Divorce Process – By keeping a divorce friendly and fair, the arguments and stress often associated with a divorce can be mitigated. This could result in a generally problem-free and dispute-free divorce.

  • A Focus on Healing and Understanding – Divorces can be tough on you as an individual, leading to hard feelings and difficult emotions. Friendly divorces can help you and your spouse avoid excessive blame and guilt. The focus can now be on self-care and what's best for you and your children moving forward.

Keep in Mind: Not All Divorces Can Be Friendly

While friendly divorces seem rather ideal, they are not always possible. Instances of spousal abuse, child abuse, or various forms of endangerment may lead to a more contentious or one-sides divorce, which is understandable. It;s important to note the reasons for a divorce and other factors when determining how to approach any sort of legal separation or dissolution of a marriage.

How a Family Law Attorney Can Help

By working with an experienced divorce attorney, you will receive expert legal guidance through the paperwork and phases involved with a divorce. As noted above, your attorney will help keep the process professional and cordial, and offer advice on how to maintain a friendly atmosphere even when emotions are running high. Your divorce lawyer offers peace of mind, and a clear understanding of all of your legal options every step of the way.

Contact the Law Office of Karen S. Brown

To learn more about your legal options and the nature of divorce proceedings, be sure to contact an experienced family law attorney today. We will work with you and help you make the right choices when it comes to various topics related to family law.